I don't care about you, but I want you to think I care about you. This is how I feel when I receive thousands of Eid-congratulatory messages on WhatsApp and other social media ... One message to thousands of people, what do you think I feel after this message? not Thing. Literally not Thing. I did not feel connected or social, I did not feel special to you, because you did not mention my name even in the letter, and the message itself was not from your words, because I know you well and you do not recite poetry or say this rhyming speech.
If you really matter to you, why don't you pick up your phone and call me? Why don't you come to visit me? If you really care about me and do not have time to make you come to visit or you do not have the money to make you speak with me, send me a real message for me alone, and tell me in person in your personal words that you congratulate me and wish me a Happy Eid and ask about my children and mention their names to me. Make me feel that I am human and not just a name on your family or friends list. And if our knowledge is superficial, there is no need from this letter because it did not increase our relationship and did not make us closer. We all know how I sent it, and you may not know that I am in the list that was originally sent to it.
Do you know what I'm feeling? I feel that the more technology penetrates our lives, the less humanity becomes, and we become less communicative, more violent and evil. I remember the past while holding my grandfather's hand and we would go to a family member to sit with him for only five or ten minutes, to move to the next quickly, just to congratulate them on the Eid. This was really social communication. Therefore, when there is distress, you see everyone gathered around you in distress as you gathered with them in joy. This is social media, not WhatsApp.
This is social media, not WhatsApp.
Wonderful article true and correct
I do not like these types of messages nor do I ever send them
And if it came to me, I would delete it without reading ..
Its money is a need to burn yourself, to be sensitive and to talk about so and so, and it is correct to deal in the same way, with the exception of the one who has credit over you, you who contact him. Happy new year
With all due respect to me, his name is Qari
Certainly, you will meet someone who greeted him or replied, peace be upon him, because you met him face to face
How you like him in the text message case is a big difference between them
Actually, in order to feel special from my friend or relative, I expect a call from him.
Or at least I accept a message addressed to me personally
But if it is afflicted by your love, you will turn to it completely
As for you enter into the intentions of the writer, and he does not send these answers to you
With all due respect to the author of the topic, you are not the best one who reminds you of a text message in which your name is not mentioned, and your topic revolves around the word “I” in which you think that other people should be the initiators of your congratulations.
You stand to criticize someone who reminds you of a message, so what did you do ??? nothing .
In the past, the Arabs used to say: “He who reminds me of greatness, you will have greatness,” while today we criticize people who remind us of a message.
Yes, a text message does not rise to the level of a relationship of kinship, but it can be considered as a salutation, and if you saw someone who does not care about you and does not care about you, but I send peace to you, would you not respond to it !!! Do you criticize him !!!
Sending a message is not worthy of kinship and instead of criticism, was it necessary to show the merit of the bond of kinship at all times, including on the days of the two Eids.
This is what I mentioned in my previous response to the author of the topic, with respect to him and to those who supported him. Annoyed him by mentioning a message that he did not add in his name, while I challenge him to have him or someone else call all the friends who know them! So what's the solution? One of two things: Either you give up on all your friends except those whom you can call in person, or empty yourself on the day of Eid and sit at home to call everyone you know.
Words to the point, but I will start analyzing this issue. Since not everyone likes this type of communication, why do we do it? I wonder if we have become busy or pretend to be busy, or do we want to put our minds at ease and congratulate them with this quick message? Or do we prove to them that we are distinguished by congratulating them, or do we know modern technology? Do these messages make the recipient imagine that we are remembering him or are they a compliment to him? Personally, I send these messages to the people who are dear to me, knowing that I will not see them at the present time due to place and time. Thank you for the beautiful discussion.
Your words were correct, but my heart pained me, affirming within me the feeling of what I wanted to believe
With all the messages and greetings that I received from my friends and acquaintances, I felt that I was alone and that no one celebrated my Eid with me.
My father, may God have mercy on him, used to visit the young before the elder, so the Eid died and took with him every sweet thing, and after him my best days became memories that have passed
True words, one hundred percent, this is our case, frankly
Happy new year
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Yes, all modern technologies are beautiful, but society makes everyone in a state. If you walk in the markets, you see people are distracted by their tours, or when a family gathers, everyone sees no one in their mobile.
God is seeking help from what we have devastated ourselves from the fun. Thank you
I found the WhatsApp program on my iPad
Oh God, technology changed us and distanced us from each other
And God is with you. This is our bitter reality, according to your saying
Communication sites have distanced people from each other instead of bringing us closer together
If we did not wake up to this negligence, then this is definitely our condition, God enlightens our minds and heals our hearts from ossification and cruelty.
May Allah reward the author of the article
Unfortunately, this is our current reality ...
An honest and frank article yesterday in me is a fact that I have used in my social relationships. Technology has robbed me of the social sense and true communication, the meeting of hearts and gazes, not the connection of letters and pictures. I feel difficult to communicate when I meet those on my phone list, I feel that I am used to their electronic image only, just letters and numbers !!
What happens is a tremendous setback, and I try to recover from it, and there is no strength or power except with God
Realistic speech that explains our current reality
And I believe that social media has not and will not be the correct alternative for social communication between relatives and friends, no matter how developed,
Because if communication is not tangible, then it has no real value or impact to make you feel.
I said everything that was on my mind and shuddering
Unfortunately
I only read my congratulations and congratulations messages in a jiffy
Hi
May God reward the writer of good words, which describe our reality but contradict what we were created for, which is the acquaintance between us. Whoever we write to them may not know them, but inevitably we know who added them to the list and he is one of our friends, if he understood the friends of our friends, and it may be the opportunity to get to know them and become our friends.
Visits have become rare, and phone calls to communicate are few, so should we eliminate communication permanently by not sending these messages circulating between us? And if there was nothing but peace on others, who we know or do not know, then we would have a lot of good, we have been ordered peace be upon whom we know and who We do not know.
We pass through life with many people, whom we do not know, so we accept Islam and ask them about their conditions, and then we walk.
When we receive your letters, we will remember you, and it may be a good memory. So we called for you and the ticket will be fare, and this may prompt us to contact each other.
We know that you are still alive as soon as your letters arrive,
The matter is fine, and to cut it is to cut off what remains of the rare cordial ropes,
And peace.
The meaning of your words. Do not send free messages, but I lose the value of the call and benefit this poor company
There is the possibility of audio or video messages via lineage, why you did not touch it or because it is free
The program is excellent and does not prevent visits between friends and family.
In general, any social program according to the same person can benefit and may also be badly used.
I am now outside the kingdom and were able to greet all my relatives and friends, and I only used the call to the elderly who do not deal with the program
Peace be upon you and God's mercy and blessings be upon you
My opinion is that WhatsApp is the best program ever for social communication, and since most people are attached to it more and it is the most congratulations on Eid, and I frankly noticed that many people congratulate people such as the nation of Wahba, the brothers of travelers, and all the beloved of the heart of those who agree with me this opinion !! !!!
I give you the topic is wonderful
Unfortunately this is the bitter reality
Indeed, we no longer feel the holiday as we used to feel it now, first we used to meet with the oldest of the family all of us, our children and all the families, and the second day with the younger and so on
Rather, we were, when the meeting, decided to get in our car and visit so-and-so and so-and-so
It is true that WhatsApp is a blessing, but the direct contact is reduced, which I think has a lot on the soul
When you sit with some, he regrets the days of old
Every year and everybody's okay
Thanks for the article, it really got our hand on the wound
I think that some brothers do not know about the predominant way to send congratulations and how it depends on selecting an upcoming congratulatory message and changing its signature and then sending it to a group from the contact list, this group often has names that have been disconnected from them, and even more than that, and if I did not want to mention the example The following, but it clarifies well what is meant, among these names in the list there may be someone who passed away even without the knowledge of the one sending the congratulations. If this is a method of communication for you, some people do not know, so how do we call this communication?
Indeed, communication programs have increased human beings after and not as social as they are called, but we have become individual livelihoods, each living in isolation
Very nice words
It is true, by God, this is happening in our society
A bitter and true reality, I thank you for the presentation
And the speech is true XNUMX/XNUMX Aslan The same message comes from more than one place and no longer in something that senses us through speech because it is repeated
By God, I did not understand something, but there is a serious issue on it
You really have the right, the topic has become very cool
This is exactly what we are going through now
How beautiful it is from the subject
The article is good, but I have been afflicted with water, which is what communicates with them on the Eid with the wattsab. They are the companions or the parents.
True words
👍 Correct and realistic words
Nice words
Actually, God is an article for our current reality
True, realistic and at the core, 😢
Talk is empty, so to speak
If I contact everyone I know, I want a month
WhatsApp is a blessing and our gift is an opportunity to communicate on a daily basis with those we love
I see that on the contrary, WhatsApp has reached people from a long time from them, with the concerns of the world distracting from calls and other things, so WhatsApp is a sweet message of greeting or congratulations. We inform those we send to them that no matter how busy the world is, you are on the mind. The call takes time, and sometimes it is embarrassed. I know the time that suits the person who will call, and see how much he calls today for the people that you know. WhatsApp is easy and difficult, and the time is reduced and we reached people without embarrassment and cost .. This is my opinion.
In light of the depletion of telecommunications companies at us, sometimes with fictional prices for calls
And also some of us have a not so small contact list
Some of us were encouraged to send a text message or a WhatsApp message
For the low cost or to see he had
He thinks that she may express more than hurriedly communicating and listing some words
For myself, I see the message expressing more than contact
I also see that some letters, even if I did not write them myself, but I took them from here or there
I get the feeling that they are the same words that I want to say
I will not find better words than them, and also when I read them, I see that they are very suitable for whom I will send
Some letters I wish I wrote
As for myself, I find sending messages better for me than a call, because I may write my best, but the call may be forgotten or hesitant in some words.
Unfortunately this is the reality
An honest and frank article yesterday in me is a fact that I have used in my social relationships. Technology has robbed me of the social sense and true communication, the meeting of hearts and gazes, not the connection of letters and pictures. I feel difficult to communicate when I meet those on my phone list, I feel that I am used to their electronic image only, just letters and numbers !!
What is happening is a huge setback that I am trying to recover from. There is no power or strength except with God.
This is our reality at this time
Very wonderful article, but this applies to parents and those who live in your surroundings, but how far away you go to visit them
Words in balance
It is more unfortunate that you receive congratulations on Eid Al-Fitr while you are on Eid Al-Adha
Messages without feelings
If you are unable to convey your feelings with the message, what is the benefit of a group of letters that communicate with each other better than the one who sends it!
There is an amazing thing that you receive congratulations, prayers and love from someone who has been ignoring your communications!
This is a tax determining all, we seek refuge with God from it
First, I thank the writer for the beautiful article, but I see that there is great prejudice and a lot about technology and an attempt to fuel souls ... What is the obstacle to sending a message on WhatsApp or a program of social networking ... The meaning is not by the written words but by the presence of a message from the person himself regardless of whether the speech is from his writings Or he copied it from someone else’s message. The important thing is that he reminded you and sent you a message. God bless you
I feel sorry about this thing yes it does help us but it brake the family connection and that \ 's not good in islam
I still remember, as I said, my father’s hand. We go to all the family and congratulate them with the Eid, drink juice and eat chocolate. I think that in the near future, I may not be able to see my son. I will only see him through a new invention that creates a model for me as in advanced films. I separated between families and friends, and now I am suffering bitterness because I am in the West, and I cannot see my mother, father and family, but a beautiful topic, my brother Sami, and we thank you for the interest in these areas in order to understand what is happening in our religion, morals, and Islamic society. Peace be upon you.
Unfortunately, this is the bitter truth, and our Lord will set conditions right, God willing
There are negatives and positives for using whatsapp, and from my personal point of view that there are people who communicate on WhatsApp only with their relatives without visiting them.
This is the look of those who think themselves the center of the universe! He gets angry at someone who remembers him with a message that was not mentioned in his generous name, while he did not think at all, nor did he send a message !!
Indeed, when we give ourselves more than we are, we make a lot of mistake in judging the actions of others and their behavior. Rather, I am a simple person who went over the list of friends of so-and-so and left a good impression on him, so he reminded me of this Eid (among those who remembered them) and sent a general message that it was enough for me to say that I still remember you!
Of course, the writer’s words about public messages apply to messages between children and parents, or whoever has a right to us. As for the list of friends, it is impossible to send a private message to every person unless I am free myself on the day of Eid for this matter :)
May God reward you. Yes, this is the reality.
Right words, XNUMX%, there is no longer any true family or social contact
Unfortunately, this is a dire reality in which we live.
By God, I am traveling and far from my family and I think that technology, on the contrary, has contributed greatly to social communication that is not very expensive.
Peace, mercy and blessings of God
This is the reality of Arab youth: indifference and the death of values and morals.
We ask God to guide the nation to the paths of righteousness
Dear Blog Manager .. Your Eid Mubarak :)
Away from the intensity of the tone in your article and the conclusion in which you issued your judgment on technology, that I see the correct opinion of impartiality, balance, and avoiding throwing the whole load on technology and making excuses, if there is a misuse of technology then it is the misuse of use, like water, it is indisputable to its necessity for the human body But excessive drinking is harmful.
Yes, this is the reality, almost XNUMX% from near and far
He does not pick up the phone and call you, but rather a message and WhatsApp
You believed in your words, but think well ..
Because the one who sends a message of congratulations on the arrival of the holiday, what we say about him is that he does not care about me or that he hates me, because you will meet, whether after an hour or two hours or more from the time of sending the congratulations
This is for our family, congratulations on WhatsApp, after which we make it all together (we all gather in one house and get along with each other)
As for the people who congratulate on WhatsApp, it does not happen. This does not correspond to your topic. This applies to your topic .. It is what they care about you, but specifying the whole, sending!
But always think well (some suspicions are sinful) because he may be busy, travelling, studying, mourning, a tragic accident happened to him, and we ask God for safety, and so on...but in reality, technology and technology have ruined people’s gathering with each other, and what comes from it is worse!
Thank you Yvonne Islam. Happy New Year :)
You believed in your words, but think well ..
Because the one who sends a message of congratulations on the arrival of the holiday, what we say about him is that he does not care about me or that he hates me, because you will meet, whether after an hour or two hours or more from the time of sending the congratulations
This is for our family, congratulations on WhatsApp, after which we make it all together (we all gather in one house and get along with each other)
As for the people who congratulate on WhatsApp, it does not happen. This does not correspond to your topic. This applies to your topic .. It is what they care about you, but specifying the whole, sending!
But always think well (some suspicions are sinful) because he may be busy, travelling, studying, mourning, a tragic accident happened to him, and we ask God for safety, and so on...but in reality, technology and technology have ruined people’s gathering with each other, and what comes from it is worse!
Thank you Yvonne Islam. Happy New Year :)
Actually your words are so realistic that I do not really care about WhatsApp messages, nor do I exaggerate if I tell you I no longer know who sent me a message because it is all repetitive and boring
These are true words and thank you for them. Indeed, if the message was written to you personally, it would have had a more positive effect on the recipient’s mood. However, what is important is that the person remembered you, expressed you, and sent you this. This is also enough. Thank you to anyone who congratulated me on the Eid. May God accept it from us and from you. Happy Eid to you and may you be among those who return.
Happy Eid to everyone
It is ridiculous to think that someone owes you something. It is enough that you are lucky to be alive.
This is a saying, not mine.
Sorry for the hurtful words, but it is the truth ...
XNUMX% true and this bitter reality that we are currently living in, before the technology we used to go to return to our people and our neighbors house by house and the same words from them, and then I would invite you to greet him with a means of social media.
Praise be to God for every case and every year and the iPhone crew is fine.
Your words struck me at the core
You never exaggerated, but it is the truth, unfortunately
I write the letter myself and send it to everyone who deserves it in all its meaning, but my simplicity and clarity may be seen by some as a compliment
And God is properly placed.
God bless you, a wonderful article and it tells the reality and the image as it is.
This is the bitter reality
Sociology and technology are two paths that do not meet, no matter how much we try to write and say about the benefits of technology, and perhaps one of the many has become suffering from this abominable technology that steals my life little by little without me knowing. Frankly, I have followed a system in dealing with the icon or the Internet so that I make my phone silent at home, and whoever wants to call me, the house phone is present, and I am devoting from two hours to three only to the Internet at the end of the night for work or reading and not for chatting. Thank God, my relationship with my wife and children has become better. I do not feel their presence if the iPhone is next to me, because it is my friend in my unit, although it was really the cause of many of my problems, thank God that I quickly became aware of the problem and was able to overcome it to some extent. Praise be to God that I love him on this holiday and I love his connection, I visited him or I will visit him and I am not persuaded by a letter or even a call, so this is a meeting of the year for the year sometimes, why not invest it and meet the one I love and this is advice for everyone who reads my comment This technology steals our lives from our consent.
Mahmoud's brother
God bless you and make you steadfast, you know you are obligated!
Indeed, we misused technology and turned it from a blessing into a curse in many ways.
I am like you, brother
I began to indulge in smartphones, their technologies, and their programs since the days of the Dead and ended with the iPhone ... and every new development deepened the link to the device more at the expense of other activities ... and the most subject to compromise was free time (and sometimes other than leisure) at home, time for real social activities, and so on.
The bad thing is that one always found in himself a justification for what he did
Totally agree with the article and strongly oppose it at the same time!
It is not, as the author of the article mentioned, with this closed template
It is very relative ..
Sometimes the messages, communication, or even the personal visit are empty of meaning and without effect, and other times it is just a ringing - in addition to a message - that carries a lot of meanings and communication.
The issue is basically either the good use of technology ... or its misuse
The field between these two extremes is full of possibilities ...
Man is a social creature
Communication media in all its forms - traditional or technical - are tools for communicating shared ideas and feelings, and what is relied upon is the results, not the means.
There is no communication instead of a possible visit, nor a message instead of communication .. even if sometimes it is a message or a picture that replaces several minutes of talk
It is important to think about the other person, how he will receive our communication with him, and accordingly we choose the method
God knows
Wonderful topic of the best I read on Eid. Really expressive of reality
Happy New Year
Hi
Really, this is true, but each one and his circumstances. I am, for example, an expatriate in France. My family called me one by one and the rest are my friends sms
The frankness of the subject is in a lot of prejudice to technology! I mean, in the past that the writer is talking about, the circle was narrow, and acquaintances were limited, and all of them were in the nearby street at the most ...
Now the family’s scope has expanded and many have become in distant and dispersed countries ... Imagine the necessity of contacting all relatives, acquaintances and friends, how much will it cost? Personally, I am much happier, as are all my acquaintances, my relatives, to the best of my knowledge, any message or whatsapp I receive, and I often laugh and fill my mouth with some of these messages, and it may be a permanent audio recording, a photo or a saved video clip, better than a thousand courtesy calls that end with its end!
Well done, talk at the core😢😢😢😢
Never incorrect Few cases communicate via WhatsApp
We communicate on WhatsApp only for those who are geographically distant from us or those close to us, so we meet and hold moments and parties, but this technology helped us send our pictures and pictures of our concerts to those we love everywhere, regardless of the geographical dimension, and undoubtedly it has its disadvantages, but the logical use is the best and it is really a double-edged sword and depends on the person's use Whether it is positive or negative
So, you are in the harem, and by God, you communicate 😄
As for us men, every eye is on his cell phone, even in our gatherings
Our situation with technology, even in matters of our religion, it distracts us from it, let alone communicating with relatives 💔
I totally agree with the article - indeed, as there is a dimension of modern technology and making the means and means of communication more accessible and easy than before.
But at the same time it helped to disappear feelings and emotions from our lives
And instead of family visits and written messages - we became dependent on phone calls even when we were in the same country and maybe the same street - and then the e-mails appeared, and how many after that WhatsApp, Skype, Facebook and Twitter
Yes, methods of communication have become easy, easy and multiple, but at the same time they have become devoid of feelings and feelings
And thanks and sorry for the longer
Your words are correct, but in light of the fraudulent telecommunications companies, they will gain from my opinion. For example, I have more than a thousand names in my device. More communication companies attack you, this opinion and I leave the rest to you
I raise the greeting to you, an article at the core. I personally consider this type of message more provocative than it is a connection except from someone whose relationship is superficial, or I may have never met him in the first place.
As for me, I did not send any kind of these letters, but in return I reply to them by name, thanks and prayer
And I think that I was right, because I set aside time for him to respond to his congratulations, and I remembered his conditions and put forth a word in his name and called for him according to his condition.
Understand you and take what comes to you as it is without explanations or interpretations, especially without exaggerations, so that you do not harm yourself in the first place.
I know that at this time, praise be to God, to find someone who communicates with you in the first place, even if it is a generalized message on a group.
The most important thing is direct communication with the most important people, such as parents.
may Allah help
God knows
Praise be to God, thanks to him, and from him the blessings and goodness of the people of the Sultanate
People and rulers .. As the customs of ancient civilizations are still continuing
Between generations and to this day .. Visiting the people home, by house, or without
An exception still exists in our good town even if the letters arrive
From us to them or from them to us .. The taste of the visit and the look of the eye and congratulations
Sound and image are unmatched and irreplaceable, even if you count the million messages.
Greetings
Hi
First of all, I congratulate you on the advent of Eid Al-Adha, so every year and you are fine
My conscience will blow me if I don't get stuck here! Your article forced me to comment so much that I turned my finger muscles involuntarily! ... It is a statement that expresses my great admiration for the article.
It is indeed, unfortunately, that actual social communication between people has decreased due to technology, and even decreased the bond and brotherhood between people. The more this technology increases among us, the more this phenomenon increases. I believe that most people and the rising generations have come to see this as something normal, and even the opposite is abnormal! Therefore, I suggest running a campaign on social networks that will gain great influence to alert people about this matter and remind them that the call benefits the believers.
Finally, I want your Excellency to post some quotes from your article on my Twitter account so that more people know about these benefits.
Thank you and for the safety of God.
Hi
Yes, what you are saying is true.. But you should know, my dear brother, that the number of friends is large.. You think about it and see.. Or you can choose to contact the people close to you..
Anyway, may Allah reward you with all good and may you have a happy new year. Congratulations also go to the honorable members of the group.
God reward you
One of the most amazing things I have read, by God
True words, XNUMX% and I agree with you.
By God, by God, and by God, there is no exaggeration in words and your words are XNUMX% correct, and there is no exaggeration in words, and this is our painful reality
Unfortunately, this is how our reality has become a technological progress that is matched by the loss of social values. May God conceal us
This is true, but with reservation, as communication is required, albeit with a minimal amount, and knowledge is close
Personal opinion: The social media, heard from or read, is not considered a means of greeting, no communication, WhatsApp or anything else, unless it is not possible to reach it for the distance.
The one who wants to return to his relative or friend will go to his home as long as they are in the same city or village
The reason is not the advancement of technology, but the problem is that we have not applied the law of God in our life, so the Eid has become like any day ...
Do not be surprised by these messages, they are a consequence of this problem
Frankly, a topic is at the core, and this is our current reality, and I ask you for permission that I quoted the topic on Twitter
I remember that I wrote an article with the same idea after we used the mobile and that was in one of the Arab forums. This is really our reality and we started to lose a lot of feelings on occasions and other social communication, and I do not forget one of those responses from a person in the forum when he told me that he uses messages on the mobile phone for people who are not They only matter. But after all those years and with the multiplicity of technical means, I can be certain that we will use it even inside the walls of our homes when we want someone to bring us a cup of water or tea. Unfortunately, the state of our social relations is in decline, and the way we use technology is one of the most important reasons for that decline.
Your words are really real and your feeling is really my feeling, how much I admire you the people of Fon Islam, God bless you and you
Words enter the heart of the heart
An important topic, and indeed, speech is at its core
I wish there would be a lot of interest in such awareness-raising issues on the part of our media, schools and mosques
Yes, this is the bitter reality
There is no power but from God
On the contrary, everyone insults the way and communicates the message to the person and keeps it in it. Mo like he forgets the call
Happy new year
Peace and mercy of God
I support the author of the article in principle, as it applies to all social media programs, but I disagree with it in terms of focusing on only one program, which is (WhatsApp). The WhatsApp program is one of the social programs that brought us closer and made us communicate with many people. We will not be able to communicate with them except through these programs, which I personally consider a blessing for us, not a curse on us. But I want to ask the author of the article and the reason for his focus on the (WhatsApp) program and his neglect of other programs that we use such as (any jQuery) and (Telegram) and other famous programs and his focus only on the program (WhatsApp). You might say that this program is one of the most popular programs that we use at the present time, that is true !!! But your focus on only one program and its use in communicating your idea to readers undermines the credibility of this article. Knowing that you can communicate the idea without focusing on this program only.
I ask you to respect your readers, because they will understand the idea without using this method of presentation.
Thank you
This reality is now, and God knows what will be the reality in two or three years
In the name of God the Merciful
Peace, mercy and blessings of God
May Allah accept your obedience
Perhaps the author of the article disagreed with the partial disinterest in others
We are in the past a somewhat closed society, and our relationship does not extend beyond the neighborhood or the region, work and relatives are all close to each other.
But today, the young man in us has about XNUMX cell phone numbers for acquaintances
Some of them are in his neighborhood and his region and his work, and some of them are in the vast lands of God in the East and West, and if I called everyone, I would not have sufficed today and the bill would not have helped me
But despite that, we are legalized, so the first to communicate are wives who are not close to my country or my region. As for those close, communicating with a visit is better.
Friends, it's enough that I send them via WhatsApp
The selection is not for everyone. Rather, it is a selection from a list. Whoever I chose, I meant him by congratulating him, and if I did not write his name in my letter to him
By God, you are our brother before everything. May God protect us as a helper despite the distances between us, but we pray to God for you with all good. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you for the great service you provide to us. You are a symbol for us in knowledge. Thank you, brother.
Question you incite us to each other? Hahahhahahahahaha
An article at the core .. The truth always wore pain 👍
Good words, wise and generous
“Be the change you wish to see in the world.” -Gandhi
why do not you care about me" ?!
Why don't you visit me ?!
why you do not ask about me"?!
What is this selfishness ..
Every person who objected to these messages ... must do one of two things ... either he should do what the others ask them to do ... and make a positive change ...
Otherwise, he should remain silent, out of respect for whomever he wanted to congratulate, even if the congratulation was devoid of feelings ..
Because less is much, if we compare it to nothing.
Why is there no version of WhatsApp for iPad yet?
An article of more than aaaaaaaa ...
God willing, from the beginning of XNUMX/XNUMX/XNUMX I will completely move away from technology and its derivatives for a period of two weeks in principle, and it may increase
It is a challenge with myself, I know it is difficult, but it does not hurt me if I give it a try
Greetings to you 📵
Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahhahhah, believe me it failed miserably if you apply this method from the reality of an experiment, but if you want to succeed, limit certain hours using technology per day, because this method is the correct way to use technology because if you stay away from technology for a long time you can succeed and accomplish the task but there will be a response A psychological act by your addiction to it more than before to fill the deficiency in this period.
Well done, a good topic, and it simulates our daily life, God made it in the balance of your good deeds
Your article is right
This is how my tongue is for everyone who came back to me on WhatsApp
A name is on the list, and it may not be known that I am on the list in the first place
Hi
Frankly, an important and delicate topic for our drift behind and most of technology
The social messaging application, especially the well-known WhatsApp, but recently, especially when it was sold to Facebook, or do I care about it a lot, so I rarely communicate
As for Eid, frankly, use paid messages, and the reply and congratulations come to God
But messages are useful with the distant one, that is, in another country. As for the relative, the better to visit him at home is better
Oh Lord, a thousand among the hearts of Muslims
Thank you, brother Tariq, for the article
Hello .
My brother your words, I felt it from the first sms, before technology developed into pictures and videos. I felt that the spiritual distance between people would be reduced one day, and that communication would be wholesale, that is, through groups devoted to them unified feelings and dry words without a soul. What connects you to the sender, you will only find loose phrases and expressions that are selected from the mothers of books and poetry mixed with story, wisdom and lesson. All you know well is that you are not the intended message, but it came by mistake despite your certainty that you are the intended one.
Very beautiful and wonderful words
Yes, I agree with you on this opinion
But after my family makes me use wathap I use phone call and
Sent after a watup for images
With all due respect for your opinion, but the content of the article: Reprimanding Habiba to her lover. !!
The person who wants to make you feel that you are close to his heart will call you or congratulate you with his message and emboss your name after it :)
But if you are a normal person in his life, it will not harm you or harm him if he sends you congratulations on the Muslim holiday.
It is true that this message feels empty and does not contain a lot of celebrities. It is also consumed to the point that it is possible to receive a message from two different people and contain the same speech in the letter, but I consider it as the least little.
Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahah in the name of God, the Compassionate, the Merciful. Jenny you, I am sitting reading the words and trying to remember when I wrote it ,, as if you were a delivery agent on my heart and I took the feeling in it about the WhatsApp greetings ,, No.
Just the opposite
There are many people who cannot be contacted for reasons such as distance, or they are old friends with whom we gathered days and kept us in contact with these messages.
Hi
An essay to the core
The main culprit is the human being
As for the technology, God made it for us so that we can use it when necessary
May Allah guide us for what is our good.
In the name of God the Merciful
Happy New Year
But then I thank all those involved in these technical works here, most of them are good, but excellent
As for the topic at hand, the fault is not with technology, but unfortunately with people, because our religion orders us to communicate socially in general and on holidays in particular, and our Quran and our Prophet (PBUH), we have become, as soon as there is a problem between one person and another, we send him a message on the holiday, as they say, to raise a grudge, while it would be better for me to go to him to greet him. The Prophet (PBUH) said, “Among the disputing believers, the best of you is the one who initiates the greeting of his companion.” This is in the case of a dispute. As for what some of them say, under the pretext of being busy and not having enough time, you see that what he has achieved through his work and academic achievement does not exceed the work of barely a third of his day, so where is the preoccupation? With the exception of a few
Things do not need criticism and analysis of the matter. Simply treat people as ordered by our marriage. And our Prophet (PBUH)
Peace, mercy and blessings of God
Your words are correct, the more technology, the less social
Every year and everybody's okay
The topic is not as bad as the author of the article, may God protect him and us
When I send the group message, at least I mentioned you on my mind and actually expressed an interest in contacting you
On the other end:
Some people you must communicate with them by meeting or direct word, and the message is not sufficient here
Personally, I try to put together the words myself and do not accept any podcast for sending it to others
As for the general invitations by messages, such as an invitation to the occasion of a wedding, if the event is public and family for all, the message is completely acceptable
Greetings to all of you
A really beautiful topic, White, about the painful reality, the stalemate in which we live, and the lack of ties of kinship.
The accepted technology for remote approximation. And not for short distance
Thanks for the nice article.
May Allah reward you well ...
Yes, we are something we are losing our humanity ...
Peace, mercy and blessings of God
Unfortunately, yes, this is the bitter truth. The more science advances and the easier it is for humans to live their lives, they robbed them of a trait of human beings. Since the television appeared and entered homes, family relations began to decline and shrink until we reached the iPhone, which distracted some from even watching the road while driving his car and caused souls to be harvested .
We ask God's pardon and wellness
This is exactly what I was telling one of my friends a couple of days ago
thank you
Wonderful article
God bless you
Wonderful topic of the best I read on Eid. Really expressive of reality. I shared it with friends, and in fact the speech mentioned in this article is not limited to congratulating the Eid, but includes all other occasions, for example someone who will marry sends a single invitation letter copying and pasting to everyone without mentioning me by name. In fact, I do not care for him to attend, unlike those who invite me And he talks to me personally, making me feel important, so I am ashamed of not attending and make sure to come to him to comfort him.
I have a suggestion
Inside the congratulatory message
Put the name of the recipient
He will definitely feel that the message is his only
God willing, whoever wrote this statement is really touching an emotion
Unfortunately, this is our reality.
I go back and say thank you to the one who wrote this beautiful speech in its painful formulation in its reality
Wonderful topic and we are all falling short
Unfortunately, this is the hard truth. And I feel it when I receive these messages. Especially when it comes from someone who does not have to communicate with me, I know that he sent it unintentionally
Whoever finds your words is correct with water
But why are you blindfolded?
Who are you so mischievous :)
Peace be upon you, Happy New Year all.
All that I said is correct, my brother, but I think that the alternative is not to communicate at all (whoever sends congratulations via WhatsApp and others will not pay a visit or a phone call if he is banned from WhatsApp), because I think that it is better than not asking at all.
A very nice article, maybe it expressed my reaction to not responding to any congratulations on WhatsApp yet? Why ! Because I did not feel that it really belongs to me, or as some say “dropping a duty” and I call it “silencing it” if you will :) Thank you iPhone Islam for this beautiful article المقال
Whoever was close to me write him a special message for him
And send it to him
As for the rest of those who carry me with them, their kinship is not close, meaning they do not share with me in my life anything bad kinship and name
Or my relationship was not that close
I write a letter myself and I mean to all of them, I chose them carefully and sent it to all of them
But family and friends have special messages, because they have special places in my heart
Happy New Year, Yvonne Islam community
This custom exists in our family. On Eid al-Fitr, visits start between relatives and on Eid al-Adha there is a meeting over lunch and dinner for three days.
Every year, you have a thousand health, goodness, light, blessing and faith.
I hit the liver of the truth
Your point of view is a side of the truth
But
I think some people mix communication between meeting and calling, as well as WhatsApp
Why?
Because, to me, people differ in their proximity
From my relationship with him more closely, the communication is in a stronger way
What I do know is a little deep knowledge and a near-fading relationship
I think WhatsApp message is enough, and it is better than not communicating. For example, if someone sends 200 people, is it reasonable for me to contact these people?
I remember the past while holding my grandfather's hand and we would go to a family member to sit with him for only five or ten minutes, to move to the next quickly, just to congratulate them on the Eid. This was really socializing.
Praise be to God, this Eid comes this way every Eid 😍😍😍
In fact, a wonderful topic touches the reality and that this is the bitter reality. Thus every Eid, there is no real communication or at least like the previous one, because this is because of the technology we have become like this.
By God, I thought it was an introduction to a revolutionary application that communicates on your behalf with all your friends while you are sleeping
But, by God, your article has really alerted us to some of the disadvantages of technology.
The solution in such circumstances is to actually take the initiative and start visiting close people and friends .. and hope for what this will leave on the souls.
Beautiful and really influencing talk. Technology and social media have succeeded in reducing our connection to the world and increasing distances rather than reducing them, as they destroy our real social relations and hijack their enjoyment.
The topic is very important and at its core, everyone is doing the same thing and me too, even though I only call some of my close friends on the phone and make me fall short with others.
Very nice topic
May Allah reward the best of those who wrote this article
We live in reality
The more technology, the less social relationships, we have become devices in the hands of devices. This is our case and nowhere
Yes, you did not exaggerate at all
Especially since WhatsApp messages are free and greeting everyone with the touch of a button does not take up any of our time!!
Thus it is empty and without feelings
Thank you for this good topic, it affected me a lot
Starting from the upcoming occasions, I will change the way I send messages
Thank
Peace, mercy and blessings of God
The proverb says (People are stations)
I mean, each person has a specific rank, the first rank you have to meet with them, the second you call them, the third you send them, and so on.
This is how life goes
No one can stop technological progress, but the problem is not in sending a message on WhatsApp. The problem is that some people do not find time to send this message, but rather that they do not think that they should return only to very close people.
May God protect our children
Yes, a living reality without an iota of exaggeration ..😔
Most of us feel this way about the effects of technology, which is the problem in things that are preventing us !!!
Desire, determination, implementation, and get rid of bad habits, not technology! Because some believe, then, that the solution is to leave technology, and this is wrong of course.
well said
Wonderful topic of the best I read on Eid. Really expressive of reality. I shared it with friends, and in fact the speech mentioned in this article is not limited to congratulating the Eid, but includes all other occasions, for example someone who will marry sends a single invitation letter copying and pasting to everyone without mentioning me by name. In fact, I do not care for him to attend, unlike those who invite me And he talks to me personally, making me feel important, so I am ashamed of not attending and make sure to come to him to comfort him.
There is no doubt that part of your proposal touches on the bitterness of our relations and their recent status with the technical revolution
Which definitely isn't bad, but it's bad for us
And the judgment remains indifferent when sending congratulatory messages there is some exaggeration because the principle is to spread joy and not to strengthen relations.
Yours sincerely
Unfortunately, this is the truth 😒
Human beings have become cold
I receive the same message and my friend has the same message from the same person
You did not exaggerate, at least for me ,,,,, has happened to me on this Eid ,,, I sent messages of Eid congratulations free of charge to some of my acquaintances ,,,,,
May Allah make your days happy
By God, you said to me, Al-Khater
Nor is a congratulatory message in the form of a Broadcast or even just copies of your pod I replied to it .. and no unit .. because really inside it \ “I don't care about you, but I want you to feel that I care about you:) \”
Stop the hypocrisy of humanity !!!!!
Do not accuse anyone of hypocrisy unless God Almighty shows you his heart
It is the bitter reality and not an illusion. They have become robots in a precise sense
Wonderful article
Sound words, but the positive thing about the subject is communicating with relatives outside the country, like our situation in Syria. We ask for your prayers. Thank you.
Beautiful real article
Unfortunately, brother Tariq, this is the bitter reality .. Technology and social media have brought the distant closer and the near far away !! .. On this Eid, I called a group of friends instead of communicating on WhatsApp, and their tone of voice was very surprising .. No one was communicating anymore on the phone .. At the same time my call was met with approval by some of my senior Sunni relatives .. I can only say that this is the beginning Only God is the helper
Unfortunately, this is the truth of the time and I hope it will change
You have hit the eye of the truth
Therefore, some families still adhere to these customs and all family members go to spend the first days of the Eid in their hometown so that the largest possible number of family, relatives, and neighbors, old and new, can gather.
Wonderful topic
Social media programs in general, it is already the right of the distant, I mean, for example, you are traveling for tourism, study, or treatment. This is how it is used for the distant and not for the relative and your safety and every year and you are fine
I am in the West, therefore, I communicate with my family, but on the phone. Praise be to God anyway ...
Your words are true, brother
Indeed, this is our reality at the present time. You may receive a collective message of congratulations. It is a bitter reality. The old customs have died, and we used to feel the pleasure of Eid.
Words in the core alerted us to a very important topic .. may God protect you .. I will start sending private messages .. each according to his status ..
Right words, but: It does not include all people .. There is a group of people who betray letters and not expression, as they are satisfied with the rule of God and know that there is no mercy other than him. Then you prefer messages over communication, and so on. And I like to explain a need, which is that some people are characterized by secrecy, meaning that he may live with you and conceal a state for more than XNUMX years, so I advise you that you do not rush to judgment and do not think without a deep thought and knowledge of physiognomy. Greetings to Yvonne Islam = We love you in God, and every year and the Islamic nation are fine
Psychological verification
you are right
Speech has something of health
But it is an exaggerated view
On the other hand: I can say that it increased communication between us and the distant people with whom we did not communicate ... just numbers saved in the phone, but at least for now, something connected us ...
These programs are all a double-edged sword that depends on who uses them
True really true words
Unfortunately 😔
True, the beautiful time has ended
Thank you, dear, for these lines that explain the situation of the great majority of people .. But I think that this is the best of the worst, and I ask God to bring everyone closer together, and technology will not be a reason for divergence, not closeness .. Greetings
You are right. Real communication is by calling, visiting, or by letter that includes my name or the name of one of my family members
I forgot something, author of the article. Before you congratulate ten to twenty people on the holiday. Now and by WhatsApp. Congratulations one hundred two hundred. WhatsApp did not prevent you from addressing those close. But he made you congratulate near and far
Unfortunately, this is a bitter reality, and you only say the truth
Really, this is our reality with what is called social communication, which distanced us from our principles of communication
Happy New Year
I never send these messages
And whoever uses the message of the feast, the same message was sent back to the same person
Happy New Year, all of you. Indeed, one of the best things I read in this period about our bitter reality
I disagree with the writer
Because direct communication still exists between us
And we need to communicate electronically to the hardest to reach
We have been using messages since the days of SMS, and they are not new today.
You are exaggerating.. I don't think that sending messages is a lack of interest.. I care and sent the message and chose him from the list and took my time to search for a beautiful greeting that suits him, all of that because I care.. I personally prefer to be congratulated by messages instead of phone calls or visits.. This is my opinion and every year and everyone is well and happy Eid
Electronic communication no longer has any taste
I left it for years
I tried it on SMS days
I couldn't find anything comfortable
I lost the sweetness of the smiling faces
And words of welcome
Kind invitations to me, my parents, and my offspring
Communication remains the same as it was before the technology
Delicious
Fun
Delightfully
I am mentally, religiously and worldly
He is worshiping God
Unfortunately, this holiday surrendered to the way of communicating with Wattsab, although before I used to call or go to visit, but this holiday changed the situation with the change of human condition .... Happy New Year
Unfortunately, this is the bitter truth, which I personally try to change
Right your tongue and God bless you and ask God to guide all the Islamic nation
God bless you
Best article on Yvonne Islam
Really exaggerate
The truth is I am a big fan of the blogger's articles and his writing style, the idea of the topic is great
Words at the top of magnificence and rationality
WhatsApp and all communication programs are the necessary evil 😎
Days of time are over and we are in a new era, new ways, each age has its own concept, advantages and disadvantages.
Imagine writing the article on paper and imagine the limited spread !!
Ultimately they are beliefs and virtues in every person
"I wish, as a society, we try to plant the best things in us, and then everything is insignificant and we can control everything based on what is inside us."
Words of gold delivered
Indeed, the relationship of relatives has become WhatsApp or Facebook, and perhaps with the advancement of technology, the relationship of relatives becomes intimate only
Really Roooooh ,,, I brought her a wound p
Ok, a program is required to mention the sender's name in the message
There are such programs, but you write my dear brother Moon12345. I send you holiday congratulations :)
You are not exaggerating. Every year, I call everyone I know and do as you say. I talk to him and bless him and ask about the Eid, but this holiday I made a decision not to call someone and wait for what will happen. Imagine what the result was. I swear to God that he is sad. We call it communication, and I am now thinking what happened and where are the people, where I am from them, and what do I do on the upcoming holidays.
This is my first post and I love you very much, an Egyptian residing in Saudi Arabia
Really excellent article that makes a person think carefully about his life and his social relationships. May Allah reward you
Good and correct words with water
This is an article about heartburn
In the past few days, I heard a lot in the media talking about the same issue, but in other ways than the Eid.
Yes, they are social media programs, but they canceled our cultures and the teachings of our religion related to social communication when we gave it more than it is appropriate for as electronic devices.
Oh God, give us a beautiful response to your religion
You never exaggerate.
Your words are right 1000,000%
No, by God, you are right. Unfortunately, this is what is happening between us. Most of us no longer visit our friends, but rather shorten the distances by sending messages to everyone, as if we have done our duty to the fullest.
Peace be upon you and your Eid Mubarak Saeed and happy Eid to you, Tariq I wish you a holiday with all you wish.
As for the topic about WhatsApp communication, I also came to the same word they found on Google or on another site, so that you see that they are the same words revolving around you, as if you were playing on cards and unfortunately not with friends but also with brothers
Peace be upon you
Unfortunately, I believed this bitter reality
Your Honor, do not exaggerate, on the contrary, true and very realistic words. The more technology, the less communication between people, such as (Days of Time) that you have visited. Wonderful and useful article
I wish Yvonne Islam
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